If a member asks to meet but I’m not ready, what do I do?

Never agree to meet another member if you don’t feel ready. If they ask and you really don’t want to meet up yet, tell them. Explain that you’d just like a little longer communicating online, but you are interested in meeting up one day. If they are genuinely interested in you, then they’ll wait. If they suddenly stop returning your messages then they’re not worth meeting up with and it’s better to find out now what they’re like rather than further down the line.

Members Comments

Jun 01, 2016 at 11:29 PM
Great advice. I also think there's a lot of pressure to give in to a demand to share photos via email without knowing anything about the person. If he's pressuring you, don't do it. He should be interested in getting to know you, not just looking at photos of you without knowing anything about you. It's a matter of respect. That's my view.

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