i have been a widow for 21 years,am not giving up i may find another soulmate,i live with 5 cats so i am a animal lover,even though i feel my age i dont act it and i dont want 2 grow old gracefully ,and i hope i dont look it ,even though i look in the mirror and c the wrinkles coming on now,haha,i dont drive so since my 14 year relationship ended 5 years ago i dont get out in the evening any more ,so boring as it may sound have gone over 2 knitting,reading,and tv,i used 2 line dance and do couples western dancing and am still into country music but no longer get 2 venues but have learnt do without it not being a driver,i allso like 50s and 60s music, i have a wicked sence of humour but believe me i dont take kindly t any man on these sites hoping that i will get into smutty talk ,so if thats what anyman wants pass me by.