looking for a confident in herself lady, who is sure of what she wants, and not afraid to get it, , loving honest, likes to spend time with me , rather than go out clubbing,, my ideal partner would not be much of a drinker, or not at all, as im not a drinker, and think that people who get totally rat arsed have no dignity in what they do once their drunk,,, im a lover not a fighter, and she has to like to communicate and be herself, and openely discuss things with me, as secrets and lies, are recipe for heartache and paranoid states of mind, she will like to go off on adventures away for breaks abroad spontaneously,and not worry over minor details like touching up her make up every 5 minutes, , also into eating out staying in, going to the movies and theatre, visiting zoos and museaums, doesnt need to be a house wife kind a gal, just needs to be, caring and sharing, , and not a girl that likes to flirt around my friends,, must be a one man women,,, not old fashioned or prudish, but reserved around public displays, , as for bedrooms antics, , , she will be wild as a lion, and not afraid to say what she likes, and how she likes it done, a body confident , secret hot horny lusterous lady, , , , i dont want a lot do i , lol