i am divorced, self employed, friendly, sociable. i enjoy going out or staying in and enjoy talking to people who like to talk. i am currently single and am looking for a woman of similar status. i have found in life that although "looks" and appearance obviously count, they are not the basis on making relationships work, a good friendly character and personality are more important. i am looking for a friendly, caring woman - one who enjoys a good conversation. colour or size is no real issue with me: one of my old girlfriends was a size 18: she was good company. i don"t like extroverts or flashy people.