irieeyes - Looking for sunshine - in need of warmth

Have recently moved back to the UK after living in warmer climates. Am new to this area and am missing the sea and sand. However, life would be better if I had a little sunshine to keep me warm.
I am mummy to the cheekiest and most handsome little boy and he is the reason I wake up every morning and continue to make the most out of life.
Having been widowed, I certainly know life is too short, hence prior to motherhood I threw myself into my business, travelled extensively and took advantage of whatever opportunities came my way via my career which explains how I've lived in Hong Kong, India, Singapore and sunny Jamaica.
I miss cooking for that 'special someone' as my 3 year old isn't fully appreciative of my culinary skills (yet!).
I enjoy the occasional evening out - cinema, catching up with friends over a glass of wine, swimming and dancing (although it's been a few years since I went to salsa classes and whilst I don't profess to being good, it just makes me smile).
It's been a while since I've snuggled up with somebody on the sofa and settled down for the evening with a good movie and I feel like I'm ready to snuggle up again.
Finally, I am a believer in fate, whatever happens, good or bad, happens for a reason. I've loved my life so far, would not wish to change it (although I'd like to lose a few kilos - lol) as those ups and downs have made me who I am today.
PS. I'm a bit of a neat freak so if you're untidy, it will give me something to do (without nagging) and if you're tidy, then we'll get on great.