hunny - Hi i am kind,considerate and caring, enjoys a laugh, but can be serious when need be

I am 5ft 7in, I am a widow, and i work part time as a carer for the elderly, i absolutely love my job, I have been known to get myself into trouble by my friends for "pratting" around. I do not take life to serious any more due to losing loved ones in the past, We only get one chance in life and i now plan on making the most of it, preferably with someone to snuggle up with on these very cold evenings. I am looking for a man who hopefully will be taller than me, and who has manners and dressess casual but smart, i do not do black tie jobs they tend to be too stuffy, so sorry, I like a man to be a man, and who occassionaly holds doors open, sometimes sends flowers when they are least expected, and also keeps himself well groomed, but otherwise someone who also enjoys a laugh, and some one who not only likes nights out but also likes nights in snuggled on the sofa with a good movie and maybe a bottle of wine. I am getting old now lol so really would like to find that special someone before i start collecting my pension lol