geminii69 - If at first you don't succeed...redefine success!

Hello there:)
I am 41, divorced with 3 children.(NOT here looking for a daddy for them, they aleady has one who is perfect, but you must at least like kids!) Originally from London, been here in the Fens roughly 10yrs. I have curves - not stick thin, just giving the heads up incase you think you might be allergic! although having said that I'm not too much the other extreme either. I'm healthy, happy, intelligent, articulate. Currently in study. I also do a lot of humanitarian/charity work and am off to South Africa for a short while next year to do a bit more.
I think for the most part people describe me as a 'good' person. I'm not at all sold on that tag.
To me, Mother Theresa was good, The Dalai Lama - another 'good' egg.... as for me? I am far more inclined to describe myself as someone who falls very short of that particular bar - quite a regular, stroppy, funny, energetic, 'can't-be-bothered-today,' philosophical, pragmatic, easy-going, pernickety, loving, emotionally giving, selfish, headstrong, private and caring person that tries to keep the karma flowing in a positive diection. I'm realistic and know that this route might well be a long shot insofar as finding someone to click with but, I'm game to try.
Not on here looking for someone to 'complete' me. I am very whole and happy the way I am. I wouldn't mind meeting someone who compliments me though.
I also believe that cultivating a proper loving relationship takes time and so therefore am seeking more of a marathon runner than a sprinter.
Thanks for viewing and be lucky out there..
Nikki x