It is easier to love than to be loved !!!
A mature, well traveled hedonist, happy with my own company, seeking the pleasure of sharing mutual interests, with a lady who is also happy in herself, and is looking for a partner in crime rather than just a soulmate.
Having been Married, I understand the need for space in a relationship, so commitment isn't necessarily bound to a written contract, rather the recognition of the simple spontaneity of enjoyment in each other's company within the demands of our busy lives.
We all have a full portfolio of experience which colour our daily lives, so it isn't our CV's and the things we've done and seen that structure what we seek, rather realising the highs were basically simple little things that touched our inner souls.
My Zen master taught me that to give, you first have to learn to receive, I've learnt that all pleasure flows from this especially physically and emotionally.....so I follow that mantra with the emphasis on your pleasure is my pleasure.
A classically trained artist and musician, still active, and use my design skills in my business as a diamond merchant......was very active in the live music scene in the 70's and 80's having owned Orange Music, so did the****r Mad dogs & Englishmen UK leg, first Reading festival with Mayall......into Jazz and Blues now.....
Played rugby for Wigan and London Irish, as a hooker which says it all LOL.....Golf, squash, all forms of fishing, and hunting.....always eat what I shoot, was brought up 200 miles from the world's finest Tiger jungle....Sunderban in Bengal.
I trained with Michel Roux at the Gavroche in London, and enjoy cooking which relaxes me. I love eating out and enjoy all cuisines especially Chinese....will drive to Manchester to dine at my favourite restaurant, the Yam Sing.
If circumstances permitted a quiet weekend in the country with the one I adored would be heaven, just enjoying each other......
So if you are looking for a soulmate, your own space and the spontaneity of the moment's notice and extended pleasure, intellectually and physically do get in touch....I do believe in reality, and always keep my word....life's too short, and while words and pictures say so much , find a voice says it all instantly.
A sensual mind is the most appealing .....