chessaddict - international diamond smuggling astronaut......maybe.

Hi there, im paul, 32, all sorts of nice and positive things about me which include faithfulness and loyalty, humour and tolerance, creativity and intelligence, tenderness and inner strength...you get the picture. im not perfect, and i can be a little self absorbed. i dont like to chat away about whatever but feel the need to engage my brain before i speak most of the time!
love watching films and listening to music, really like trying to make films and music too. im an artist designer actor storyteller am well known for being great with kids would really like to get my not quite toned enough ass into gear and do more sport and stuff. i live right next to a canal and want to get a canoe!.
I love to cook and was a professional chef for some time. at the moment im working in media and design but am totally underpaid!
I am on this site to find someone to connect with. i am really done with all my youthfull rushing into relationships and getting hurt/freeked out. It would be nice to find someone who wants to take it slow and prolong the fascination and involvement and erotic frission that makes meeting someone new so exciting.
love to read all sorts of stuff lots of chinese philosophy and 60s psychiatry and sciencey books. i read spiritual books and sci fi novels. i occasionally get down to doing some writing.
If i am not at all your cup of hot beverage than i truly wish you bon chance with your search, if you would like to chat just as friends that is also fine.
whoever you are, dont worry too much about your love life...just enjoy who you are and soon you will have a crowd of people enjoying themselves along side you! :) X