I am 48 with 3 children - 2 boys 31 and 16 who live with me and a daughter 18 who has her own flat. After 19 years of marriage we split up last year and now its time to move on. I am an honest, sincere and caring guy who needs to re establish trust in a relationship - my wife did the dirty on me and it hit me for six ! I am not a player or after casual flings - good company, things in common and a similar view of the future are more important initially - however sex is very important in my eyes in a loving relationship - just with each other though !