Polinius - Retired, active and looking for what? A lasting relationship

I am just over 5'11" tall, and weigh in at 14stone 4 lbs. at 79 years of age I cannot state truthfully that I am an Adonis or over active. However, I have just (within the last two months) retired from a very demanding active life which included managing a very profitable business. I believe in being open and honest with people, . I think it was Polinius In Hamlet who said. "This above all, be true to thyself". I have tried very hard to live up to that. What am I looking for here then? Can I suggest that the why's and the wherefores' could be discussed over luncheon or dinner.
I am solvent, usually dressed smart but casual but when the occasion demands I can wear full evening dress and still be comfortable. I have no credit card debts or any other debts.
I have been involved in music all my life, conducting, arranging, performing grand opera and oratorio
I have a car and can travel, I have no restrictions on mid-week or week-end travel (although I avoid the motor ways Sunday evenings.
Finally, I am not looking for sex. I find that luncheon or dining out in the evening is one of the very few civilised pleasures that we still have left. As the Italians say. "Luce delmondo e amour" Light of the world is love.