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Am I cheating?

Today I heard back from the guy who isn't usually my type. I really enjoyed chatting to him. He made me laugh and feel really good. The guy I am meeting up with also makes me feel good, but in a different way. Now I feel really bad about the guy I'm meeting up with. It seems to be the nearer the date is, the more I feel I am cheating on him by chatting to others. Think I need to sit back and remember I've not met any of the guys and I'm not anyone's girlfriend, so I'm not doing anything wrong. My friends keep telling me I'm not doing anything wrong and I'm meant to be having fun, but I seem to keep forgetting that part.

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Posted By Josh_37 on 04 October 2008 at 22:52
I've had a similar situation as this recently. I started chatting to a girl , we agreed we liked each other, agreed to meet and get to know each other. She goes on a night out. I say I hope you're being a good girl. She texts back, i'll not commit to anyone I've not met. Fair enough I thinks and texts back, that's okay, saying you're with someone you've not met would be madness. Then I get a text saying I am a good girl but I'll not stay faithful unless I'm in a relationship, until then, I'm a child of the sixties. I text back saying that sounds like you aren't a good girl, like you're into one night stands, like you're being a slapper. I've not heard back since so I think she was. So myopinion is whilst you aren't with the first guy, you've made a commitment to get to know him, by all means date others but keep it as that not sex and don't mess guys about, you wouldn't like it if it was done to you.
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