Today I got chatting to one of the other guys I contacted! I really like him too!!!! I feel like I'm being unfaithful to the other guy I like, but how can I be when I have never met them? I spent ages talking to my new guy and he seems really sweet. He is really funny too. I have had some people show interest in me in the last few days, and I know it sounds awful but I can't seem to get excited about that because I really like the two guys I'm talking to. I don't want to seem rude and not respond to contact requests I have received, but then again I don't want to lead them on. I'll have a little think about it. I might just send a simple reply so I don't come across as being rude, for all I know I may end up really liking one of them.
All I wanted to say that, as an oldie, if you haven't led on one of the guys, I don't really think you are being disloyal by chatting to several guys. If you are bombarded with comments from guys, I am sure it's not easy to reply to then all. That is not being rude. I speak as one who was brought up in a quite different age. Many of the people on chat sites and chat lines are totally misleading. I have realised that to my cost. But this site seems to me to be honest, decent and free !! :-) Despite the fact that my life has been mucked up in many ways, I always try to describe myself as I am. I really do hope you find what you are looing for.