All I've thought about all week is my date last weekend. I hope I'm not getting my hopes up. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't scared of getting hurt, but we are all in the same boat. Unless I'm willing to give it a go, I'll never find out. I have been talking to my guy on the phone this week. I feel more comfortable doing that since meeting him. I have still been checking my messages on the website, but I admit I haven't sent any. I feel bad as I have some messages which need replying to but I don't know what to say. My guy and I have talked about meeting again, so I'd feel bad sending a message to another guy. I also feel bad for not replying to messages in my inbox. Do I send a message saying I have met someone, or is it too soon to say and carry on chatting to others like normal?